
EPISODE #119
MANDY KELLOGG RYE
Pressure Is A Privilege: How Mandy Kellogg Rye Built Waiting on Martha
"Failure has never dissuaded me from doing something. I literally don't care about it."
Mandy Kellogg Rye, founder of Waiting on Martha, isn’t one to shy away from opportunity out of fear of failure. Her tenacity and courage are the threads that run through everything she's built. On this episode of The Market Makers, she sits down with Jon Pertchik discussing her foundational small-town childhood to the momentous day when Martha Stewart called and changed everything.
Mandy grew up watching her dad hold two jobs — realtor by day, wastewater treatment plant worker by night. Occasionally, he’d bring Mandy along for the ride, and she witnessed his drive at an early age. Her parents never told her no was a final answer. They never framed mistakes as something to avoid. "Making mistakes was not a bad thing," she says, "and I still feel that way." At 75, her parents still showed up to help Mandy lay tile in her store's new entranceway for three straight days. That work ethic isn't something she learned. It's something she absorbed.
Her brand, Waiting on Martha, started with no intention at all. Mandy was a top-performing sales rep in healthcare consulting when she noticed a creative spark inside her that had never found an outlet. Shortly afterward, Etsy launched. Blogs started appearing everywhere. And one night, wine in hand, she decided to start a blog. She designed her own pink-and-orange logo and gave it a name based on the movie she was half-watching. She hit publish with, as she puts it, "zero thought of failure, zero thought about the name, zero thought about anything." Three months later, Martha Stewart called.
What followed was a roller coaster of success, including Pottery Barn partnerships, magazine shoots and eventually her brick-and-mortar store. This outcome wasn’t built on luck – it was a result of being genuine and refusing to perform a version of herself that didn't exist.
Mandy kept her corporate job for four more years, but continued growing her brand the same way she started: championing what she believed in. "When I get on social media and tell the people that follow me I love this product," she says, "they don't question it. They know I love that product." That trust took years to build. It's also why her team has a rule: no unnecessary apologies. "Women apologize way too much," Mandy says. "We're not doing that."
But Mandy is honest in a way that's rare. She doesn't skip over the hardships. Last year, she called her landlord ready to break a ten-year lease. She thought she was done, but the people who knew her best told her to take a week before making any decisions. She did, and she stayed. "For the first time in a long time," she says, "I'm really excited and feel very invigorated by the business and retail as a whole again."
New categories are on the horizon. A rebrand is underway. And Mandy is reviving something she knows the retail community needs: a space to connect, commiserate, and support each other. Because as she puts it, pressure is a privilege.

Mandy Kellogg Rye
Failure has never dissuaded me from doing something, meaning I don't think about it. I don't think about the bad outcome, really. Probably should think about it more sometimes, but I literally don't care about it.
Jon Pertchik
Today on The Market Makers, Mandy Kellogg Rye, founder of Waiting on Martha, she started a blog while drinking wine and watching a movie, zero thought of failure, zero plan. Three months later, Martha Stewart called, but this isn't a story about getting lucky. It's about what happens when a work ethic gets a creative spark that's been waiting for an outlet.
One of the things that leaps out to me when I look into your background a little bit is every quote has the two words, the other hard work, and just speak to your sort of views on that, and maybe we can start to dig into where does that come from in Mandy?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Sure. Well, I definitely think I come by it naturally, meaning my parents are the two, hardest working people I've ever met in my life, but I've always been a worker. I've always enjoyed it. So, I had a job the second I could have a job. One of the new things is the kids don't want to drive. I was still in the car before I had my license.
Jon Pertchik
I got caught a couple of times, but that's for another day.
So, where does Mandy's work ethic come from?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
My parents always instilled, like literally, I could do whatever I wanted. If I wanted to be the president, I could be it if I worked hard enough for it, so there was never a, "It's given to you." It just is.
Jon Pertchik
Can we double click on that?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yeah.
Jon Pertchik
So, why? What was it about them or who they were or where they came from? Where does that come from in them?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
They were partners, so there weren't male and female duties. They were true partners and really hard workers, themselves. My dad had two jobs the majority of my life, and I used to go with him to his night job when I was in half day kindergarten. I remember that clearly.
Jon Pertchik
So, you're talking like five years old or something.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yeah. He worked for the wastewater treatment plant at night. He was a realtor by day. My parents, I don't ever remember telling me, "No, that's a bad idea," or "No, you shouldn't do that." Making mistakes was not a bad thing, and I still feel that way.
Jon Pertchik
Oh my God.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
If I make a mistake, who cares? You're not going to fail unless you're taking big swings, and you're absolutely going to fail all the time, and that's okay. Failure has never dissuaded me from doing something, meaning I don't think about it. I don't think about the bad outcome, really. Probably should think about it more sometimes, but I literally don't care about it.
Jon Pertchik
You're this five-year-old. Picture this cute little girl, holding her dad's hand, going to work, and all these ingredients from that time of, failure's okay and just work hard, and your parents probably telling you some of these things, but more importantly, living it, and you just seeing that through modeling their behavior.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
100%.
Jon Pertchik
Tell me about going to work with your dad. What are some of those early memories of what were you doing? Were you just playing with stuff while your dad's working? What was that like?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
It was the night shift, right? And so, his work was about 45 minutes to 50 minutes from where we lived, and he would always stop at 7-Eleven and let me get whatever candy I wanted, and I was a huge junk food. I did not eat real food when I was young.
Jon Pertchik
Well, that's impossible to imagine.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yeah. I mean, I would just go and walk the plant with him, and then I would obviously sleep at some point, but my customers know my parents. I just expanded my space a year and a half ago. My parents are 75. We cut and laid all of that tile in the front entranceway for three days, like me, my mom and my dad.
Jon Pertchik
Oh my God.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
He built all the houses I grew up in, so they let me design every room that I had. They'd be hanging out of the chimney, and they had real jobs too, so I come by it naturally and they were always very supportive.
Jon Pertchik
I mean, the takeaway there is make sure you have great parents.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yeah. You can't choose your parents, but you can choose who you're around. You can choose your spouse, you can choose your friends, you can choose who works for you, and so making sure you have people that are cheering for your success and cheering for you and in your corner.
Jon Pertchik
Where does some of that awareness that you just described come from, about choosing people importantly around you?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Sure. I mean, listen, I didn't always choose the right people.
Jon Pertchik
Well, we all haven't. Come on, yeah.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
I mean, for sure. If you ask my mom about some of my boyfriends, she would tell you, "Absolutely not." But college is where I really thrived, and I'll never forget this too. I grew up in the same small town. I just always felt like I was meant for a bigger life. Now, looking back at 45, I'm so thankful for where I grew up, and I yearn for that and have that nostalgia. We drove freshman year, and we were crossing. In Peoria, there's a bridge, and it's this big orange bridge and we're crossing it, and Wide Open Spaces by the Dixie Chicks was playing. My dad just said to me like, "This is your chance. You need to go and not come back."
Jon Pertchik
So wait, wait. This is like a movie scene I'm picturing.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yeah. It's very vivid in my head, but college was just the change for me.
Jon Pertchik
So, college was the window. Not the moment, but like the window when you started to transform.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yes.
Jon Pertchik
And tell me a little more about that, because it sounds like this was a moment when you're just starting to become who you've become.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yes, and my dad is not like this deep, he's an amazing person, but we're not having heart to hearts. It's not these deep conversations, so for him to say that is obviously stuck in my head forever, but he just said, "I don't want you to come back," not that they didn't want to see me all the time.
Jon Pertchik
I understand.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
He's like, "This is your time, and you need to focus your energy here," and I really didn't go back much after that.
Jon Pertchik
But when he said that, did you get it, do you think?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
I got it on a like, yeah. I mean, yeah. I did.
Jon Pertchik
So, it actually meant something, not just now in reflection, but then.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yes, it did.
Jon Pertchik
Wow. Mandy always wanted a big life, but how do you get there when nobody's showing you the path?
When did things start to foment and become like focus and caring about where you're heading as a person, as a career person, eventually, as an entrepreneur? When did that start to come together for you and how? How did it come about?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
I think from a young age, I always wanted a big life. Always wanted a big life.
Jon Pertchik
So, you were dreaming big.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Dreaming big from day one, and big life to me meant being in the city, being a boss, buying what I wanted. I wish someone would've said, "Okay. What do you love, and how can you make money from that?" Because the idea of an entrepreneur back then was like, your parents had a business, and you took over the business. It was never like you could create your own brand. The idea of creating your own brand is how this all started, but you didn't really know that until you saw it in action.
Jon Pertchik
Right.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
So, I was like, "Okay. Well, I like to argue, and lawyers make a lot of money," so you know what? I'm going to be a poly science-
Jon Pertchik
I like to argue.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Speech communication major. I hate political science. As much as I actually love politics, I hate it. That's the one thing. I wish I would've done a business marketing or taking classes I enjoyed, because I would've enjoyed the learning side of college more than thinking that it was just going to get me to this end-sum game. That's the one thing, I wish I would've enjoyed and spent more time in the library and maybe a little less time at our bars.
Jon Pertchik
That was the name of a bar. We used to say, "I'm at the library," because there was a bar down the street that was called that.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Well, our bars stayed up until four, and my best friend's parents owned three of them, so trust me-
Jon Pertchik
That's convenient. Maybe that's problematic, that they, the parents [inaudible 00:07:21]. I'm not sure.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
But listen, I went to law school, so learning was done at some point.
Jon Pertchik
Right. You were figuring it out.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
But I didn't enjoy it.
Jon Pertchik
So then, this idea of creating your own brand, how did that start to percolate up in your mind-
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yes.
Jon Pertchik
And seeing that as you and where you're heading?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
It's very specific. I can tell you this so easily, and to anyone that is thinking about this, creating your own brand based on who you are and your authenticity in it is the key, and it will take you everywhere. My corporate job before this, I was in healthcare and consulting, but I helped hospitals and health systems with their social media and email marketing strategy. This was at the inception of social media. I mean, Instagram hadn't even launched yet, so that was very helpful for me, but I was constantly watching social media trends and all of that stuff. Then, Etsy launched, and you're like, "Oh, okay."
Jon Pertchik
Very familiar with this.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
I worked from home. At the core of it, it was a sales job. Very good at it, but I'm a worker, so I had plenty of free time. Outside of it, I was the number one sales individual for numerous years, because I'm competitive.
Jon Pertchik
You are?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
A little bit, but don't play game night with me. I've always been a creative individual, and so I've always had this creative spark that was never nurtured. I never had an outlet for it, right?
Jon Pertchik
Right.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
And so, I was watching a movie called Waiting for Guffman, and I was drinking wine.
Jon Pertchik
Oh, Waiting For
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yes, yes. But I was drinking a lot of wine that night.
Jon Pertchik
Foreshadowing.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
And I loved Martha Stewart, and these blogs started being created, and I was like, "Well, I can do that. I can share this life." Anthony and I had just moved in together. I love to cook. I love to do all of those things. I love to make things, and I was like, "Well, this would be fun, and you know what? Why not add a little E-commerce component to it?" And it was when Macy's and them weren't even doing E-commerce then, and so I started this little blog with zero thought of failure, with zero thought about the name, with zero thought about anything, made my own little logo. It was pink and orange, and because I was kind of at the beginning, which is always important, three months later, Martha Stewart invited me and 50 other entrepreneurs out, and this is when she had the show, and we spent a weekend there with the magazines , and then Pottery Barn reached out. All of these things started to happen.
Jon Pertchik
So, that happened fast.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
It happened fast.
Jon Pertchik
Can I go back for a second? Because this is a window that's important. One thing you said though, leading up to that moment, was you were this creative person, and I want to call that out, but everything up until this moment, at least in our conversation, is like you're this driven, hardworking, and this is a dumb thing to say, but I'll say it. I think a lot of times people assume if you're creative-
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yes.
Jon Pertchik
There's like this hard charging, nerdy, robotic, like go forward, linear thinking kind of person, and then there's a creative on the other hand, and they don't coexist.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Correct.
Jon Pertchik
You are obviously both of those.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
I'm in the middle.
Jon Pertchik
So, tell me about how you started to have the self-awareness that you have this creative thing inside of you.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
I never wanted what you would think of as a typical creative job. I never wanted to be a florist or an artist. I can't paint worth a damn, like those sort of things that you just naturally think of as creative, and I always wanted money. I mean, to be very honest, I wanted a nice life.
Jon Pertchik
Right.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
When this all happened, I was 29, 30, so it's not like I was like 22, so I worked my corporate job while doing this for four plus years-
Jon Pertchik
Wow.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Because I was like, "I'm not going back to living paycheck to paycheck."
Jon Pertchik
Stay in this moment where you decided to do this thing. At that moment, this was going to be a side hustle, a fun, was it going to be a hobby-ish thing?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yeah.
Jon Pertchik
So, this was like this cool, crazy, fun idea to have an outlet to express yourself. You still have every plan to make money doing your job, and you're doing well. You're a top salesperson. That ain't changing in this moment, but you've got this cool sort of probably like, was it more to do something fun and expressive?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yes, and I would-
Jon Pertchik
Well, that's the best part, right?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
For sure, because it came from an authentic place.
Jon Pertchik
Exactly.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
And I'll tell you what, if anyone wants to be in retail as an entrepreneur and make money, then you're getting it for the wrong reason, because I made a lot more money in corporate America and sales than I do now, but no, it was just this fun thing, but the thing with me is nothing stays small, right? So, it's like, "Well, I could also do this, and then I could run these brands, and then I could add this component, and then I could add this component." It's a natural snowball with me always.
Jon Pertchik
For you, right. I got it. I've totally seen that in you. One thing I do want to triple click on, because this is a lesson I've learned through just this podcast, if you had tested me and said before doing this and having a chance to meet great people like you, "What are the top one or two characteristics of successful people?" it wouldn't have made the top ten, which I'm embarrassed to say now, which would be now number one, not number two or three, is authenticity.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yeah, 100%.
Jon Pertchik
I still am getting my head around that, but it does make sense, because it's like if you are true to who you are and you put yourself out there, whether expressed through great design, whether expressed through messaging, cooking, hospitality, or whatever, there will be people out there like you.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
And I'd like to say something about that, that I wish I would've heard as a younger person.
Jon Pertchik
Yes, please.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
And I feel like you'll get me, just knowing you from this little bit, I'm too much for a lot of people, and you either love me or hate me. There's not a lot of middle, but I've never been apologetic about that, and I was never taught to be apologetic about that. You don't have to like me, and that's okay, but I'm not going to dim my light for anybody.
Jon Pertchik
Which is, again, for people listening, there's like a huge takeaway to that. I love the word "unapologetic" too and tying that to authenticity, because they have to go together, right? I mean, if you're overly apologetic for things that you were doing to express yourself, then you're not really being authentic.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
So, I have all women who work for me and a lot of them are younger, and I won't let them say sorry. Women apologize way too much.
Jon Pertchik
So true.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
And you can say like, "I made a mistake," or whatever but, "Oh, I'm sorry," it's such a natural roll off the tongue, and I'm like, "Stop. We're not doing that. We're not doing that." Also, if you're selling anything, people know if you're authentic or not, so when I get on social media and I tell the people that follow me like, "I love this product," they don't question it. They know I love that product, and it happens like, "Oh. Well, that's what Mandy loves," so we know she's not lying.
Jon Pertchik
And that's so important, because you have a level of trust that you've earned-
Mandy Kellogg Rye
For sure.
Jon Pertchik
With your audience because you've been authentic.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
And I tell them when I've messed up, and I tell them when things are hard. I've been very, very honest with people, and I think pulling the curtain back on retail, especially these last five years, whether it was COVID, whether it is how mean customers can be I mean, one of my team members before I walked in here called me crying, because we messed up a color because we're human, and you should read what this person wrote to her. I said, "No. We're not dealing with that person. Absolutely not."
Jon Pertchik
Martha Stewart calls, Pottery Barn reaches out, but what happens when the thing you build for fun becomes real with employees, leases, and consequences?
What was it like to meet Martha Stewart when you first did? And then, just I want to slow down that first three or four months of the launch. Was there an incredible level of surprise at how quickly things started moving?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yes and no. There wasn't a lot to compare it to, and I always tell people comparison is a thief of joy, and don't compare your beginning to someone else's middle, because a lot of times people will stumble upon me. They weren't there at the beginning. They didn't see me struggle. They'll stumble upon me 10 years in.
Jon Pertchik
Right. That's great.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yes, I didn't have anything to compare it to.
Jon Pertchik
I see.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
So, it was exciting. Working with Pottery Barn, meeting Martha Stewart, going to New York, getting these opportunities, shooting for magazines, and that was crazy exciting, but did I compare it to anything? No, because there was nothing to compare it to.
Jon Pertchik
Now, in that window and you're starting to get real traction really quickly, I guess from there, that window and forward, is there a process of making choices to say, "Hey, my business is going to go deeper this way"? How do you do that?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
I mean, retail's changed a lot, and how people consume content and buy and shop has changed a lot, right? Starting out, when you're at the smaller threshold, you can take more risks. You don't have to look at going deep in certain things. You can kind of do a lot of things and test a lot of things out, and especially when you don't have people whose salaries and families are depending on you.
Jon Pertchik
Counting on it, right.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Now though, being at the level we're at, I have to be careful. I mean, there's not a small launch anymore.
Jon Pertchik
Right, right.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
It's a big launch, and I have people who work for me and they support their kids, and it's-
Jon Pertchik
And other people outside of them are going to act on it.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
It's very scary.
Jon Pertchik
Right. That's interesting.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
It's very scary.
Jon Pertchik
What's interesting about you, I think, you care about consequences, probably for others, more than you do even more for yourself.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yes. I haven't paid myself this year, because we are paying for our bill.
Jon Pertchik
Yeah. That's obvious. You're this hard charging person, but it sounds like you are deeply caring about people around you-
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Deeply.
Jon Pertchik
And the people who follow you, because if you say this and people do this, and it's a bad consequence, whether it's for an employee, a teammate or someone out there, you take that in.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yes, and I deeply care about retail surviving, and I'm deeply happy for small business retailers. As competitive as I am in life, I am so not competitive with other retailers. But yeah, it's just changed a lot. In the beginning it was like, "This is what I love. Here's how I'm going to share it." I love a lot of things, so that's helpful. I love cooking and hosting and all of that, and then what started to happen when I got my brick and mortar, because I was on E-commerce and I'm still on E-commerce, but 15 years now, brick and mortar is 8 years, okay? So I did pop-ups all over the city for 2 years-
Jon Pertchik
Right, I saw that. Yeah.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
To test out size of space, location, what really matters. Fascinating. I would suggest anyone thinking about doing a brick and mortar to do that. That taught me more than anything.
Jon Pertchik
Can we go one level deep? Because I think there's a lot there. I mean, there's like a real lesson there, because-
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Real lesson.
Jon Pertchik
Brick and mortar, you're making a long-term, heavy duty commitment.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yes.
Jon Pertchik
So, get it right in terms of location, offering.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Oh, so important.
Jon Pertchik
Speak to that. How did you even realize that that was a smart thing to do before even doing it?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
This is where there are a lot of things that you got to just say yes to that happen in the right time.
Jon Pertchik
Right.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
So because I was a blogger and influencing, and I'm saying that with quotes for those that can't see me, because it is a funny word to me still, so spots would reach out to me that were vacant in Atlanta. This was before pop-ups were a thing or just starting, so they didn't charge me rent. I just had to pay my operating costs, so great. I made sure that I did those pop-ups for longer than Q4, because if you did them in just Q4 and thought, "Oh. This is how much money you're making in retail," please. For here, it's the J months, January, June, July, so you got to live that pain. I wanted to know, did I want to go into a store every day? What is staffing like? How much space do you need? What is it going to cost? I did spaces that were too big and too small, like Goldilocks and the Three Bears, and I did three to four different spaces all around the city before I landed where I'm at. It was the best. Location trump's all, period. Location trump's all.
Jon Pertchik
Okay, so now just so we have some time to talk about where you are today. How are you juggling these things? You must have a great team. You said it's an all-female team. You must have people you really can count on.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
I mean, balance is a myth.
Jon Pertchik
Right.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
And my favorite quote that I keep telling myself is like, "Pressure is a privilege," because it is exhausting and how thankful-
Jon Pertchik
You have such a psycho awesome perspective.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Am I to be chasing a dream that I wanted?
Jon Pertchik
The fact that the pressure's there means there's demand.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yes.
Jon Pertchik
There's utility for you.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Pressure is privilege.
Jon Pertchik
So, pressure is a privilege.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Pressure is a privilege.
Jon Pertchik
I'm telling you I'm going to use that a lot, and I will make sure you get credit from that.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
No. I mean it's not mine. I didn't say it.
Jon Pertchik
Well, you did to me.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
But I think two things. I think one is you need to have a come to Jesus with who you are and how you, as a person, are going to best work. I do my best work in spurts, so meaning like go, go, go, go, go for four or five days.
Jon Pertchik
Pause.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Two days off. Go, go, go, go, go, two days off. So, I know how I work best, and I try to do that. Now, that's not always possible.
Jon Pertchik
Of course.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
I had a really unfortunate employment situation, so my Christmas got turned upside down, and in those situations I've just learned, embrace the chaos, and I'm going to be excited about it or happy, because I can only control what I can control.
Jon Pertchik
Absolutely.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
But I do have an amazing partner, my husband, and I do have amazing team members. Now, teams, it's the hardest part of a business. Hardest part of a business, period, and not all your team members are going to be your A players, and that's okay.
Jon Pertchik
It's important.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
But you got to have two or three, and I do and have always had those people, and they are my family. I used to think like, "Oh. You got to separate." No, you can't separate. No, because I can't pay them enough to be there for the money. They're there because they love me, period. Like, that is, that's why they're there.
Jon Pertchik
Again, it speaks to just where drive and ambition comes from. It doesn't come from just a paycheck. It's deeper than that.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Yeah.
Jon Pertchik
Speak to, if you don't mind, because you've mentioned it a few times, and if it's too personal, we can go back.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
No, nothing's too personal.
Jon Pertchik
Basically, your partnership with your husband, and how that support, that connection, however you would characterize what you have together when you use the word "partner," how that affects your ability to be successful.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Well, I'll say this just in general, male, female, I don't care, choosing your partner is the most important decision you will make in your life.
Jon Pertchik
No question.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Period. Like my parents, Anthony has never asked me to be someone else, ever, and he's so supportive and they call him St. Anthony at work, which is giving him too much credit, to be honest.
Jon Pertchik
You got to chop him off at the [inaudible 00:21:20] level.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
That's just not even fair, but he dropped me off today. He is just the most pure of heart person, and this is what I'll say about choosing a spouse. We are aligned on how we view life, like the big stuff, but we are completely different in our personalities. He's chill. I'm not.
Jon Pertchik
I would say the same thing about my wife, and I too, different aspects, but exactly the same.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
And he knows my parents and saw this, so he knew he was not sitting on the sideline. You know what I mean? He is not sitting on the sidelines, and he was the one in the beginning when we shipped, he shipped every night. I got him a beer fridge, a television, and a desk in the garage, and he shipped every package for four, five, six years after work, so he was in the trenches with me. Now he loves it, because he doesn't have to do half as much, but he is in the trenches with me all the time. Unless he feels it's harming me as a person, like I'm taking on too much, no dream is too big.
Jon Pertchik
That's amazing.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
So supportive.
Jon Pertchik
Where are you heading? I mean, what else is exciting on the horizon?
Mandy Kellogg Rye
We're climbing the mountain. We're getting towards the peak. The last two years have been in the valley. The last two years have been really, really bad.
Jon Pertchik
Sure. They were tough.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
And I just want to be really truthful, because if anyone's looking, and a lot of that was caused by myself. We went through a huge expansion, and it was a lot, and last year there was a moment where I called the powers that be, even though I signed a 10-year lease and said, "I'm done. I can't do this anymore. I can't do it," and this is where the right people who know who you are, and my building management is a mom and pop. They love me and support me, and they said, "Mandy, we will figure it out if this is what you want, but I want you to take the week, and I want you to really think about it and not make any rash decisions," and I didn't, and I'm so happy I didn't. I had someone that knew me well enough to say, "Just take a breath," because I sometimes will make rash decisions.
I was just, for the first time in a long time, I'm really excited and feel very invigorated by the business and retail as a whole again. We're doing some rebranding. There's some new kind of category areas I want to dive a little deeper in, that have been on the horizon, have been in my brain a lot. Then, another thing I want to get back to that is needed, and I know it's needed, because I get stopped constantly here, is I used to be a space and coach and help other small business retailers, and just be a place that we can commiserate, talk, create these safe spaces, and bounce ideas off each other, and I want to bring that back because we need a place of community.
Jon Pertchik
Mandy Kellogg Rye, Waiting on Martha. Thank you so much.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Thank you. Yes.
Jon Pertchik
Especially in this great market, to take time to do this, I'm super grateful, and it's been super fun getting to know you a little bit.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
So fun. Thank you.
Jon Pertchik
So, thanks so much for being here.
Mandy Kellogg Rye
Thanks for having me.
Jon Pertchik
Mandy is honest, in a way that's rare, about the hard years, about almost walking away, about not paying herself so her team gets paid first. She's never apologized for being who she is, and she's never pretended the climb was easy. Last year she almost quit. She called her landlord, ready to break a 10-year lease. Those close to her told her to take a breather and just take a week. She did, and she stayed. Now she's re-energized, because as she says, pressure is a privilege. I'm Jon Pertchik. Thanks for listening to The Market Makers. If you enjoy today's conversation, follow for more stories of transformation from the people shaping how we live, work, and gather.
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